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Saturday, 17 October 2009

  • Religion

    A reporter went to see the Dalai Lama some time ago, he asked the Dalai Lama that if God was, in fact, disproved, if he would stop believing in God or the entirety of the notion that there was an almighty creator.

    The Dalai Lama smiled and replied, "Of course, but how are going to prove that?"


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    Just some food for thought =]

Friday, 09 October 2009

  • In my own Words

    In many ways, being in a relationship is easy-you go about your daily routine, you eat, you sleep, you study, you work; the only difference is that you have another person added to your important people. In many ways though, being in a relationship is hard. To be quite honest, I didn't know how this post would begin, don't know how it will end. I only know that it had to start and that it has to finish.

    In my experience and from what I've heard over the many years, some people view relationships as the same way. It begins somehow, and almost always in a different way, but usually, and almost always, it ends. I have a habit of going in and out of relationships one after the other, and this went on for many years. I went from girl to girl, and eventually to woman. And I did all this because I hated being alone, I hated having the feeling of insecurity-in essence, I didn't fully understand how to love myself. I mean, it's not hard to say, but to do and fully comprehend is something all in itself.

    So you may ask what exactly prompted this series of thoughts; it's simple, ex's. Actually, only one particular one. As some of you may recall, it's one that I continually posted about, even after that fateful, heart-wrenching break-up. See, universally, many will agree when this statement spills forth from the vast plain I call my mind onto the screen which is infront of you: that many times, in many cases, even after years of a break-up, it still fucking hurts. Now I've grown up a lot since last year, dated many more girls as well. But one thing that I will not repeat with the girl that I'm dating now is what I've done time and time again before: Sex. Yup, that three letter word which means so little to some and so much to others. See, the girl whom I'm dating right now (we'll call her Ma) has never had a boyfriend, has never had a lover. And thus she is a virgin, and as her first boyfriend, I will not take her virginity, such a sacred thing must be respected.

    We all have our ups and downs, we all have our heart breaks, we all have our hurts. But at the end of the day, it's not about what the other person gave you, it's about what you gave them.

    "You put me through so many emotions
    Now baby it's your turn for that, Cause in your empty heart
    I have left a mark
    The best you ever had"

    This was on my ex's page, and I know I was never the best for her, I wasn't the best she had. But I'll never make the
    SAME
    DAMN
    MISTAKE
    EVER
    AGAIN....

Sunday, 27 September 2009

  • Relationships: Are You MAN Enough?

    What does it take for a male to be able to be called a good boyfriend in any relationship?

    This question has always been a nuisance and a plague in my usual clear and conscience mind. So thus began my thinking and research; of course, knowing and understanding are two totally different things.

    So this wise china man will now attempt to unearth the answer to this long debated question.

    Here are some answers that I've gathered:

    - To never be whipped
    - To never allow yourself to show emotions of ANY kind
    - To make the woman know that you're partially taken by her-not completely

    Of course, these answers are from the lesser of the male population which I am oh so, honored to know.

    So, fellow reader, sit back and enjoy Phizzle's thoughts one what it really takes for a male to be able to be called a good boyfriend in any relationship:

    1) If you're not a man to begin with, then chances are, your girl will be more of a man than you; abandon all hope and kill yourself

    2) In order for men to really appeal to a woman, he must continuously improve himself

    3) Although there are many cliches as to how a man truly is, some are "expectations" from woman

    4) Being able to give the woman a sense of security is very important, how is this achieved? By having a strong sense of responsibility

    5) A sense of humor always helps

    Hmm, it seems this requires more thought...comment people!

Sunday, 20 September 2009

  • I Love Me...

    Now, in light of the fact that I haven't posted on this beloved site for too long now, I thought I'd do just that.

    As I've mentioned before, I've changed oh so, much this past year. I've done a lot of growing up, and I've experienced a lot. One thing has become crystal clear though, that in order for one to truly love another with no boundaries, with no limits, one must thus love oneself before hand.

    I've seen so many individuals around me who go into a relationship time after time again; yet none of them seem to work out, they then complain about how things never work. From what I've seen, it's because they lack a satisfaction in themselves and they lack a love for themselves.

    Alright fellow Xangans!

    What's you take on this? Do you think it's possible to have a relationship work out without loving oneself?

Monday, 13 July 2009

  • I Love All Women...

    This is a post which was prompted by queenofstyrofoamhearts (I think I spelled that wrong...-_-")

    BUTTT....here are the reasons as to why I, J aka Phizzle, LOVE all women of every colour:

    1. I've dated asian girls enough to know that although women are women, at the end of the day, I am WAY too "blackified" for them

    2. Women are like M&M's, yes I agree w/ Kevjumba of youtube (if you don't know who he is, or which video i'm referring to, GO CHECK IT OUT), women might look different on the outside, but inside they're all the same, to just prefer one race is being ignorant to your options

    3. I grew up in Toronto, which arguably, is the most diverse city in the world; I've done my share of exploration of cultures and I've realized that even though women are like M&M's, they're culture, or the culture they choose to assimulate to, shapes their character and personality as well as their virtue and their character

    4. Black women are rediculously strong individuals, like all my people tell me: you should marry a black women. NUFF SAID

    5. If God created all of us equally, why can't I love all women of all colours equally?

    6. I am called and consider myself a ladies man, that means I'm a gentlemen to all women, not just asians, or blacks, or whites

    7. I'm disgustingly tired right now...so like queenofstyrofoamhearts, i give up...

    HOPE YOU ENJOYED THAT....XD

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    Side Note: Freestyle battle this week, hopefully there will be a video I can post up for those who would like to see it....=P

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